Day 183: The Desteni of Living - My Declaration of Principle

From here, I commit myself to live the following principles:

1. Realizing and living my utmost potential

2. Living by the principle of what is best for all – guiding me in thought, word and deed to
always in all ways direct problems to the best possible outcome for all

3. Living by the principle of self honesty – to ensure I am pure in thought, word and deed: that
my within and without is equal and one. Who I am within is who I am without and vice-versa

4. Self Purification through Writing, Self Forgiveness and Self Application – the action of
realizing I am responsible for my own thoughts, words and deeds, to forgive myself for
transgressions and change myself to ensure I take responsibility for who, what and how I am
and through this know that I can trust myself to always be honest with me and so others

5. Living the principle of Self Responsibility – realizing only I am responsible for what I
accept and allow inside of me, my relationships and my outside world and so with this
responsibility: only I have the power and ability to change that which I see is compromising
who I am, what I live and how this affects others

6. Realizing that who I am in thought, word and deed affects not only myself – but others as
well and so with Self Responsibility in thought, word and deed – I take responsibility for
myself and so my relationships to be Self Aware in every moment and live in such a way that
is best for me and so others as well

7. Living the Principle of Self Awareness – to be aware, to see, to recognize my own thoughts
and Mind, to be self honest to the extent where I can take responsibility for when I see
my thoughts / Mind is not what is best for me / others and commit to immediately take
responsibility and change for myself and so for others

8. With taking responsibility for myself, becoming aware of myself – take responsibility
and become aware of others in my life, to assist and support them as I am assisting and
supporting myself – to give as you would like to receive and do the extra bit every day to see
where I can contribute to other’s lives and so my own

9. Living the principle of self trust – as I commit myself to remain constant in my living of self
honesty, self responsibility and self awareness, I stand as an unbending trust that I always
in all ways know who I am no matter what I face and that in this I know, as proven in the
constancy of my living that I will always honour and stand by what is best for all and so best
for me

10. Making Love Visible – through me not accepting/allowing anything less than my utmost
potential, I support those in my life to reach their utmost potential, to love them as I have
shown love to myself by gifting to me my utmost potential, the best life/living experience
and show others as I have shown myself what is means to LIVE

11. No one can save you, save yourself – the realization that the tools and principles of Desteni
is the guide, but I must walk the path myself. We are here to assist and support each other
in this process from Consciousness to Awareness/LIFE and what it means to live – but the
process itself, where you are alone with yourself in your own Mind: is walked alone

12. Not waiting for anything or anyone to take responsibility for me and this world – but that I
realize I have created who and how I am in this moment, therefore I have the responsibility
to change who and how I am and so the realization that we as a collective created how and
what this world is today and so it is the responsibility of the collective to change how and
what this world is today

13. Honoring the life in each person, animal – everything from the great to the small of earth,
that we expand our awareness and responsibility to creating the best possible life for
everyone and everything and so ourselves

14. Relationships as Agreements: individuals coming together using agreements as a platform
to one-on-one expand, grow and develop as individuals in life and living to support/assist
each other unconditionally to reach their utmost potential where the agreement is a coming
together of individuals understanding what it means to stand as equals and to stand as one

15. Sex as Self Expression – where sex is an united expression between individuals in honor,
respect, consideration and regard of each other as equals, two physical bodies uniting in
equality and oneness – a merging of two equals as one physically.

16. Realizing that by the virtue of me being in this world – my responsibility does not only
extend to my own Mind / my own Life, but to the minds and lives of everything and
everyone of this earth and so my commitment is to extend this awareness to all of humanity
to work together and live together to make this world heaven on earth for ourselves and the
generations to come

17. I must in my thoughts, words and deeds – but most importantly in my living actions, become
a living example for others in my world that is noticeable and visible when it comes to the
potential of a person to change themselves and so change their world. So that more people
can realize how we can change this world, by standing united in our self change within the
principle of what is best for all to bring heaven to earth

18. I am the change I want to see in me and my world – to bring heaven to earth is to bring into
being, into living the LIVING PROOF of a PRACTICAL HEAVEN that can be seen and heard in
our actions and words. We are the Living Heaven that must come into creation in this living
world.

19. Through purifying my thoughts, words and deeds – my inner becomes my outer, so I bring
into creation me as heaven into earth, realizing it is not enough to ‘see the change / be the
change’ – for change to become REAL it must be a constant, consistent living of me through
the words I speak and the actions I live visible and noticeable to all in every moment of
breath

20. Realizing that my physical body is my temple – my physical body is the living flesh through
which and in which I will bring into being and create / manifest heaven on earth as me in my
thoughts, words and deeds and so I honor, respect and regard – nurture and support my
physical body as I would nurture and support me as equals: my body is me

21. We are the change in ourselves and this world we have been waiting for: and so I commit
to dedicate myself and my life for each one as all to realize this, as nothing will change if we
don’t change in all that we are, within and without

22. The realization that for me to be able to change myself in thought, word and deed to the
most effective living being that I can be and become – I first have to ‘know thyself’ and so
commit myself to investigate, introspect and understand how I became who I am today,
to prepare the road before me into self creation of a responsible, aware, self honest and
trustworthy person for myself and so for all

23. The realization that for me to be able to contribute to change in this world – I have to get
to ‘know thyself’ as this world and so commit myself to research, investigate and introspect
the inner and outer workings of this world and align the systems of today to present and

give the best possible life for all on Earth

Day 152: Bernard is Dead. Now What?

Bernard Poolman died on Sunday, August 11, 2013. Like many others, I experienced shock and I asked, “How could this happen?” I had been considering for several weeks what would happen if he did die and I concluded that it simply would not happen. I reasoned that he was in good physical condition, that he took care of his body, and that the world needs him. In my mind, I imagined that he would be with us here until we were certain that each being had a life worth living and that until that time, he would not rest. I imagined that some day, when we get this done, that he would be free - free to rest and maybe even free from the pain that he lived with. This was the initial point that emerged when I heard of Bernard's death and it was shocking because this was not how imagined it going! This is not the way it was supposed to be! As a group, we were going to have our happy ending, damnit! No, no, no!

After this, I allowed myself to go into my thoughts and I got caught up in my dramas for several hours. My DIP buddy was here for support and the group was writing out their processes of remaining stable which assisted me in stabilizing myself. About mid-day today I made the decision to not participate in the random thoughts that were coming up and the self-pity, self-judgment, regret, blame, and emotional reactions stopped. None of my reactions changed anything anyway - I'm still here, I'm still breathing, Bernard is still dead, and our world still messed up. So, now what?

I realize that Bernard was a point of support. He has walked the process of self-forgiveness that we are now walking so he could see where we're at and give practical perspective on where we could direct ourselves more effectively. It's clear that we've been shown all of the tools to give ourselves this level of support and when and as we face a point that requires another's perspective, we have each other and the Desteni Forum.

Bernard was really good at showing us responsible decisions. He's shown us the same points time-and-time again and in as many ways as possible. It is all here and documented in the Creations Journey To Life blog and his v-logs. Now we must walk the points presented and realize them for ourselves.

I realize that any other defined relationships that I connected to Bernard are points that I must bring back to and give to myself.

With these realizations, the answer to 'now what?' is: I stand. And here I state my commitment to the Desteni group, being a part of bringing to reality a world that is best for all, and continuing with my process of self-awareness.

So, thanks for the support, direction, and down-to-earth explanations Bernard. And thanks for the wake-up call! It was really cool having you here with us.

Day 83: A Gift - PLEASE READ

Hi Everyone,

I am pausing my writing in-relation to my previous post because I have something important to share with you.

It is a gift. Here it is:

• All of your debt is removed.
• You have a quality home.
• You have the highest quality of food available to you at all times.
• You have healthcare.
• War is ended.
• All education is available to you.
• You are highly trained.
• You are employed at a job that you enjoy.
• You work 20-40 hours per week.
• At the age of 30, you may retire if you choose.
• You have true freedom of choice.
• You can actually live your life.
• You can vacation.
• You can explore.
• You have everything that makes your life comfortable, fun, and worth living.

Now, imagine: You are truly happy - for the first time ever.

Now, compare that imagination to where you are at the moment. You may have some of these things at a price - your time, your health, your life in fear that you could lose it all at any given moment, or a constant state of guilt that others do not have what you have. So, no matter how much you pay, you will NEVER have all of these things until you receive this gift.

We have had many discussions about what's been going on in this world. Together, we've opened each others eyes to many of the problems. This has been an intense process at times - what we've found is NOT cool, we have been overwhelmed, we see our situation as deeply rooted, and it just seems like there's no way we're going to get out of this mess we've allowed. And yes, we have Equal Money as a solution but we've all become way too dependent on the system of Capitalism and we have a long way to go before getting everyone into an agreement on the change.

Daily we are seeing things getting MUCH worse - and because of this, we need prevention now.

This is where Equal Money Capitalism comes in. This system will work as a bridge between from where we are at the moment as slaves to Capitalism to our destination which is free from Capitalism.

We have economists, psychologists, therapists, physicists, healthcare professionals, business owners, farmers, engineers, dieticians, educators, writers, web developers, researchers, artists, analysts, historians, activists, musicians, photographers, travelers, social workers, service professionals, software developers, students and parents working together to re-define Capitalism and create this new system. These are individuals who truly care for you, your children, your animals, your planet, your future, your children's future, your animals future, and the future of this planet. We do this because you, your children, the animals, nature, the Earth - all of these are important to us and we see that it is simple to prevent you or anything else that's important to us from ever having to suffer.

Myself specifically, for those of you that have been with me, heard me, and watched me over the past 2 years, you may see and be aware that what I am telling you is true - and I will say it again: I care. You are important to me. Here, in my life, in my work, my career directions, in my decision to change - I consider you, how these things will impact you, and how you can benefit from them. I imagine you genuinely happy, worry-free and no longer afraid that you are going to lose anything - and in moments when I doubt myself, this assists me in standing and not giving up.

The truth is, the best times of my life have been with the people in my world - my family, my friends, the people that I work with - yeah ... you're like, more than awesome and we've had a blast. I mean, really, when you look at it, WHY wouldn't I be doing the work I'm doing - why wouldn't I support Equal Money or EMC when it frees my friends up as much as it would free me up to enjoy this life together. It just makes sense.

So,

I have one more thing for you. A project.

Print out the EMC image above.

• After the EMC image has printed, cut it out and tape to a window that is facing out to the road or your driveway, parking lot, etc.

I will do the same.

This will show that you're hearing what's being communicated and when the time comes that you will support a solution that provides basic human rights as well as the prevention to make sure that these basic rights are never denied again.

When you have done this, please leave me a comment in the Comment area below to let me know when it's done.

Thanks everyone.

Take care,

Carrie